You are facing a for you personally very stressful situation. There is nothing else for it, the best way to deal with it is by facing it head on. No more feeling overwhelmed or wishing someone else would just sort it for you.
It's up to you to get organised, think it through logically and take a firm but loving and direct approach. This way you are able to take good care of yourself and the person involved.
This doesn't mean that you cannot ask for help, but the strategy of how to proceed is up to you. Your willingness and courage to resolve this situation will help you make and follow a plan of action.
It's time time to speak very honestly and openly how you are feeling, with no guilt or blame. It is important for you to be assertive in a loving, kind and gentle way.
You can do this. You are able to resolve this problem for the highest good of all involved. Trust yourself and your intuition.
(Fairy Tarot Cards by Doreen Virtue and Radleigh Valentine)