We all have a certain belief system with rules and regulations. It is the environment and conditioning we are born into and influenced by.
As you are currently going through major changes, you may want to question these rules, regulations and beliefs, as they may not fit your needs anymore. This will take time and bring major changes in how you see the world and yourself in it.
It is a very necessary process for you to grow and develop. This may also include changing the network of people you go to for advice. As your view of the world changes, so do the people you share it with. It is all part of your spiritual growth and will help you move forward.
You may be feeling somewhat confused, but you can rest assured that the parts of your life and personality that are falling away are inauthentic and false. Everything is working out perfectly, as you are building a solid foundation of your very own personal truth.
(Fairy Tarot Cards by Doreen Virtue and Radleigh Valentine)