Sometimes we are caught between a rock and a hard place. The decision we have to make is a very difficult one.
On the one hand, there are the expectations from those around us, and we want to help them, be there for them, and please them. On the other hand there is what we would really like to do.
Most of the time we pick what others want, telling ourselves that it is maybe actually what we want, too. But does that make us truly happy? Okay, be really honest with yourself now – NO, it doesn't.
So, how can we solve this? The best way is to detach, and look at the situation from a different perspective. Okay, that's easier said than done. How?
One way of doing this, is by having a sense of humour. Not joking at your or other peoples expense, but seeing life as a play, and watching from the sidelines. This way it's easier for you to let go and send yourself some much needed love.
This in turn will help you make your decision based on what's best for you and commit to it. The more you dither, the more you hold yourself back. Remember: Not making a decision is also making a decision, but not one in your favour.
When your decision is based on what truly makes you happy, then it is aligned with your life purpose and will bring you joy and abundance.
(Fairy Tarot Cards by Doreen Virtue and Radleigh Valentine)