There is a reason why you are here on earth, so it’s important for you to live in the present moment and fully enjoy it. This is difficult for you, as you tend to be overly cautious in your approach to life.
You have a great need for security and you think that you can find this on the outside, in people and financial stability. You tend to be caught up in “if only” thinking. "If only" I had more money, I’d be happier. "If only" my partner would make me feel safe and loved.
At the moment, your safety blanket is control. You want to be in charge of your world, so you demand compliance from everyone and insist on having things your way, even pressuring people into validating that what you are doing is correct.
This behaviour may prove to be too much for some, isolating you from your circle of friends and family. This then makes you even more clingy and controlling, which in turn pushes others even further away.
Let the FOUR OF PENTACLES inspire you to look for this safety and security inside yourself, because this is the only place where you can find it. Grounding yourself will help you let go and trust that everything will work out for your highest and best good.
Love & Blessings