We all have this “Happy Ever After” dream inside of us, which in this day and age we expect to be like the perfect happy Hollywood ending. Our greatest wish is granted … and then what?
“Then I’ll be happy”, I hear you say. “If only this happened”, “If only he/she”, I hear you say. The thing is, searching for happiness or love on the outside will never give you your so desired results.
By projecting your hopes for love and happiness onto other people, situations, or even money, you give away any chance of actually finding it. This way you are completely depriving yourself of this great gift, that is already inside of you.
Happiness is an inside job is a quote that often does the rounds online, and yes, it really is. No one from the outside can fill those holes that are within you. No matter how much you try and give that responsibility to other people or situations, it will not work and it is grossly unfair.
The Nine of Cups is here to remind you to look within and see what you can do for yourself. How can you fill these holes inside of you? There is no miracle waiting for you on the outside, it is already within you waiting to be discovered.
Yes, it’s going to take work and probably require some changes in your attitude towards yourself, but remember, shying away from this or ignoring it isn’t going to help you achieve the happiness and love you so crave.
Love & Blessings
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